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The Full Facts Book of Cold Reading This is apparently the most in depth and comprehensive book on cold reading Rowland is an experienced practitioner but does not claim to have psychic abilityIt's supposed to teach you both how it's done whether it be by a psychic a salesman friends family work colleagues whoever and how to be immune to the techniue Once I've finished reading this watch out when you encounter me I will manipulate the shit out of you P This is a must read for anybody who wants to learn about Cold Reading It would be nice to take a look at this book but the prices at 2 new from 13499; 1 used from 13555 That's too rich for my bloodI learned about it from Malcolm Gladwell who referred to it in his essay Dangerous Minds reprinted in his collection What the Dog Saw circa page 351 Apparently Rowland enumerates and details the different tricks an astrologer or psychic will use to seem clairvoyant For example the Rainbow Ruse is a statement which credits the client with both a personality train and its opposite uoth the schemer I would say that on the whole you can be rather a uiet self effacing type but when the circumstances are right you can be uite the life and soul of the party if the mood strikes you Then there's the Jacues Statement the Barnum Statement the Fuzzy Fact the Greener Grass Techniue the Diverted uestion the Russian Doll and Sugar Lumps Forking the Good Chance Guess and the Vanishing NegativeSounds fascinating Ah well­ I stumbled upon this book when I was reading Malcolm Gladwell's What the Dogs Saw I was fascinated with the mental approach to Cold Reading the science behind the process and the basic communicative strategies which followWhat have I learned from this book?1 I certainly continue to believe psychic reading is absurd2 Listening skills are of utmost value3 Manipulation much like other forms of evil always turn inward on themselves4 The attentive listener not the speaker is always in the driver's seat5 Now much than before I can see why the Catholic Church is so opposed to psychic powers It's a manipulative lie a twisting and turning of the client and an intelligent form of manipulationI respect the art but certainly not the act Very interesting material about Cold Reading and techniues used by fake psychics and mediums etc to provide seemingly accurate information about people's lives This was a re read after many years and the techniues all still seem relevant Some of the writing is a little cringey but the detailed information is stuff I've never seen online or anywhere else Definitely worth a read if you have an interest in psychics or wish to develop your bullshitting skills 088 Cold reading Ishii Hiroyuki Psychology 2007BarackCold is no preparation on the spot meaning Reading is occupied read the heart meaning two words together that is in the absence of any preparation for the first meeting of the person fortune teller immediately speculated the other side's psychology that is a word has not heard and never met the person his present past and futureCold Reading published in 2007 is a psychological book It refers to the absence of defense or even the first meeting to see through the minds of others to better communicate with people often used by psychologists in psychotherapy It advocates learning about the psychological activities of others through eye observation talking and acting and throwing your hands and feet It's even a common social way to influence the other person through verbal or behavioral actions But The Skeptic's Dictionary an internationally renowned anti counterfeiting website criticizes the pseudoscience of cold reading as based on subjective experience Hiroyuki Ishii published in Tokyo Japan in 1963 He is a psychotherapist Reps Cold Reading Why You Believe in Fortune Tellers etcPart of the directory1 Why is cold reading effective?2 Anyone can use the basic skills of cold reading3 What kind of person are you? We type or Me type4 Lectures on cold reading practice for daily lifeSocial skills though not necessarily applicable to everyone are or less valuable as a summary I do not think it is a deception after all in real life in the end is a happy lie popular? Or is the truth that makes people angry likable? With a little life experience it's easy to know the answer Cold reading means insinuations reading the mind two words together that is without any preparation in advance fortune teller for the first person to meet Immediately speculate on the other side's psychology that is to say a person who has not heard or met in a word his present past and futureI do not understand the logic and principles behind fortune telling so it is not convenient to judge but I guess to achieve a customer subjectively think of a accurate fortune teller in addition to theoretical knowledge should also need to be combined with the performance of the person at the time of the meeting to make auxiliary judgments Then this techniue of auxiliary judgment can probably be considered a cold reading techniue and so on Even if we don't know the technology in detail Humans naturally have some of these basic capabilities For example after 10 minutes of a simple conversation with a stranger we can have a rough idea of his personality and hobbies Although this certainly may be uite biased from the actual situation it is enough for us to establish a preliminary impression of a stranger In the cold reading process it seems that the reader can tell the consultant what is happening now and in the past to speculate on his inner thoughts and to predict his future but in fact it is not so much that the reader knows everything about the consultant as that the reader convinces the consultant that what he is saying is correct So when we chat with a person we must beware of such a trap that is self talking say their happiness as the most important thing In this case we are likely to ignore the audience's feelings We need to keep a close look at the audience's response and adjust the content and manner of our conversation according to his reaction Any form of meeting whether it is to visit customers or attend a formal meeting usually the conversation will not immediately enter the topic how much will have a short period let everyone gossip homely easy to chat a few words the average person will take this time as a warm up of the active atmosphere ignoring that this is the most important communication opportunity to live with the other side's subconscious The reason is that at this time the other side thought it was just gossip so there was no caution at all The state of caution temporarily reduced called special timing in cold reading is the best opportunity to release useful messages in the invisibleWhen it's fortune telling you can use a very effective method of total non reaction to prevent scams by fake fortune tellers or fake smart people That is to say no matter what the other side said you do not have any reaction said also do not point say wrong and do not move always silently listen to the reader speak In the process of inebriation the reader will use a clever way to make you feel that you are not asking uestions pretending to ask you uestions without doing anything In Chinese culture it is traditionally considered that anger is an excellent virtue Presumably because this personality hides what they think making it difficult for others to know People are always wary of things they don't know So if one person feels untested about another the prestige of this seemingly untested person is easier to build On the contrary if everything is seen through there is a risk that the donkey skills will be poor Ideas that emerge from the subconscious are stronger than mind thinking This fact does not need psychologists to remind us Anyone can feel it from everyday experience Because of this whether it is a career or personal matter let the other side in the subconscious to leave a good impression no reason to convince the other side overwhelming effectSo try not to try to convince people directly And to subtly influence the views of others Each person has or less there will be some inverse psychology which is obvious in our adolescence When someone tries to stuff something into our minds we always have an antipathy like organ excretion But if the other side does not say but in the words and deeds of the subtle influence on us So it's like ink dissolving in water which seems natural Since the subconscious is better than the conscious the best way to be the ideal self if you want to completely change it is to start by changing the subconscious How to do it first of all to understand the subconscious understand the language is implied when it comes to suggesting that everyone's first thought is to use words the action of the implied effect is intenseI think this techniue is probably very suitable for counselors to learn Counselors such as the need for much communication work career but also need to have good communication skills to get the trust of the consultant into the consultant's heart People who read fortune teller columns in magazines shouldn't have too many people think this is true but if you ask the fortune teller on the street to look at your hands and speculate even if he says the same thing as he wrote in the magazine you'll feel right fortune tellers look at your hand speculate for you alone because you feel that way psychologically involved in the situation of speculation I found that some people believed that constellations had something to do with character so I went to check out the explanations for the constellations I belonged to I think the explanation is very broad The material does say a lot of things but there are also a lot of things that don't I tend to think that there is not so much a logical relationship between constellations and character as a result of the fact that some of the character traits listed in these inferences always have hits People feel very good about the judgment of the hit And the judgment of missing but completely ignored It's like a doctor saying I'll cure you if it's cured I'll take the money I'll not take the money if it's not cured Isn't that a steady profit or loss? Will the so and so called psychological predictions based on constellations and genus be the same? Cold reading is not really about the consultant but lets the consultant think that what is being said the consultant's situation is mostly revealed by themselves but they do not realize it at all and mistakenly think it is being saidSocrates also does not think that he taught others knowledge he thinks that the other side himself said the answer He just played a leading role So the fortune telling process or less is a Socrates style way of talking It's just a vague scenario allowing consultants to get into their situations participate in this prediction and reveal their information In any age the things that people care most about are not constellations or blood types but themselves It can even be said that there is nothing concerning than yourself If you're a rookie salesman you'll find out why customers don't care about our company's products No one cares about your product Everyone cares about himself That is , if you just try to get the other person to say something about yourself or the company he or she will get caught up in your sales pitch Their things their work their own company's affairs , are people love to talk about the topicSo a good talker must first be a good listener He doesn't have to say a lot throughout the conversation but he has to be good at directing the topic to the other person's interest And at the same time let the other side feel that he in the process of expression he can get their full attention to listen to and praise Even if it's not that easy A person often talks too much about himself ignoring the audience's feelings And a person may end up at the end of one topic failing to just right cause another topic resulting in a cold field To gain a person's trust first of all draw his feelings Therefore even a wise man is easily deceived whenever he has a feeling And even a fool as long as he is ruthless he is hard to deceive Not many people are deceived by flattery that goes straight into a single knife but it is the universal human psychology to be deceived by flattery without a trace I have done a poor job at this point and for a long time I didn't like to praise the strengths of others I just liked to point out the shortcomings of others This is very annoying Now I'm trying to learn to praise others but praise is very stiff which makes me feel that I can't help but feel false It's not as simple as you think to make your audience happy to accept your compliments People will deliberately only remember the part of their interest people's memory is ambiguous this is the trap of selective memory I've found that this happens all the time in my life For example , when I'm not interested in information about something I feel like I've never had that information in my life And once I'm slightly interested in a certain aspect or pay some attention to it I feel that life is full of information about it as if they suddenly pop up from the ground up Now I think about it just because when I'm not interested in it even if I see it it's automatically ignored by my brain It is impossible for the human brain to store all the information we receive but only selectively stores a small portion of memory This part of the content is either subjectively of interest to us or objectively significant For consultants it is not because the fortune teller is very accurate the charges are expensive but because the charges are expensive so the fortune teller is very accurate not because the fortune teller is very good so he waits in line but because he has to wait in line so he thinks the fortune teller is very strong Hunger marketing also somewhat uses this logic By raising the price or restricting the sale of the way to reflect the high level sense of the product so that customers are eager to get this product Memory is only recalled after processing and what affects the effect of processing is selective memory The reader is relying on this selective memory even if made wrong or made false speculation not afraid that they know even if there is 80% wrong as long as 20% let the consultant surprise the accuracy of than enough the consultant's mind will also leave an impression in a word so the reader always tries their best to try to perform that two percent accuracyMemory ambiguous one step further that is we tend to forget unpleasant things and remember happy things Like three years of high school life can not be 、said to be pleasant but now in retrospect those who feel stressed very anxious feelings it seems difficult to experience On the contrary the most memorable are the few scenes in which a small number of people feel genuinely happy So in dealing with people perhaps the most impressive is the , few excellent impressions rather than in most cases mediocrity Of course once a few very bad impressions appear it is difficult to correct this sense of evil People's psychology is inherently contradictory do not need to move out of the psychological contradictions of this term, you can know that anyone has two sides for example the stronger the will of the people can not be satisfactory to carry out the will the greater the frustration the likely to feel that their will is , weak The gentler and considerate the person , the easier it is to be angry about the selfishness of others feel that the other person is a badass and then blame themself for the thought I am not kind A person's personality in one respect is particularly prominent while the other side coexists to maintain the overall balanceWhen people make friends the Metropolis chooses people who have similar personalities but to become likely to make friends usually with some people who are the opposite of themselves this is also one of the manifestations of ambivalent psychology in our subconscious are hidden with the external performance of the opposite of their own and people tend to hide this hidden in the subconscious of their own choice to make friends On the other hand people who are too similar to themselves can sometimes even cause their disgust Like two creatures if they are too similar to each other it means that what they value may be similar which is bound to increase competition between them If two people are the opposite it may indicate that they value different things so that each can get along with each other 2016092520200411 To me this book is as much as of a self improvement book as the ones that are titled as such If not The author tries to dismantle cold readings psychic readings and such to show how there is no supernatural elements in them Or were to be specific he doesn’t try to prove that supernatural readings don’t exist his focus is on how the readings can be explained logically and even importantly how you can do them yourselfTo me to be able to replicate certain aspects of a psychic readings means that you can just communicate better with people Those that can successfully implement such as a techniue need to have skills that can be very useful for everyday life They need to be able to understand the human condition to be able to have full empathy for others and also crucially to really be able to carefully listen to the person they are communicating with so that the smallest detail or body language can be used to get into the mind of the person The Full Facts Book of Cold Reading Ian The Full Facts Book of Cold Reading Paperback – January by Ian Rowland Author out of stars ratings See all formats and editions Hide other formats and editions Price New from Used from Paperback Please retry Paperback Used from New from There is a newer edition of this item Full Facts Book of Cold Reading The The Facts of Life full YouTube Skip navigation Sign in Search Eiffel Tower fascinating facts Telegraph T he Eiffel Tower one of the most visited attractions in Paris nay the world welcoming almost seven million visitors per year opened years ago today Read on for some very fascinating facts Five Facts About The New Disney Show “Magic Joe Rohde Creative Portfolio 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I didn't read it as a how to book precisely just out of that same curiosity people have about how magic tricks are done It lays everything out precisely even providing scripts from actual encounters done by the author on television and radio Rowland does a great job of keeping everything down to earth and in the form of Houdini and James Randy really makes a clear line between what is entertainment and what is purely taking advantage of others I could see myself flipping back to this over and over in the future as it is basically a really entertaining textbook If you've ever been curious about this odd business it does a great job of laying everything out clearly and simply Cold reading techniues and concepts neatly organized in a well put together book Helpful advice on how to create the right conversation atmosphere Very down to earth funny and first and foremost definitively not psychicParticularly enjoyed the sections on character readings rainbow ruse fine flattery psychic credit sugar lumps jacues statements greener grass barnum statementsAnd the win win game persist wonder and let it linger I am right but you have forgotten I am right but you do not know I am right but nobody knows I am right but it's embarrassing etc The sections on non psychic contexts was good to make the knowledge transferable although the book was very tailored to the specific context of psychic readings

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